How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 05:32
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What should every American know before traveling to the UK?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why is my crush beautiful to me but not to others?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What transforms the philosophical intellect?
What I need from you?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What are LGBT+ people tired of hearing?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Are MAGA the "useful idiots" for the radical-right billionaires like Charles Koch and Elon Musk?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hangs out with loser friends.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Why do good-looking men date homely women?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What is the sum of X+XX+XXX+XXXX?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why is my ex trying to provoke an argument with me?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
That's it for today.
Why aren't F1 cars popular on the street?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Ask yourself:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.